I'll never forget it.
Several years ago, I was dragged out by some friends to attend an opera. I say "dragged out" because I was going through a particularly rough time in my life and just wanted to stay home with my dog and a generous pour of pinot. It was during intermission and I was in the ladies restroom washing my hands. I looked up and a kind-looking woman was looking at me in the mirror. I smiled a little awkwardly at her and she immediately commented, "Oh my! Your teeth are so white. You are quite beautiful you know?!"
And at that moment, I gave her what felt like my first genuine smile in weeks.
Now she could have been a little crazy in the head, suffered from horrible vision problems and perhaps was a tad too kind...but the point is...I didn't care. Without knowing it, she gifted me with a moment of happiness. I blushed, told her thank you and walked out of that restroom holding my head just a teeny bit higher than when I entered.
This complete stranger taught me to spread the joy. At least once a day, I try to give a compliment that has a little thought behind it. Oftentimes it is directed to a child I pass in the hall who spent a little extra time on her hair that morning. Or the teacher who is wearing a kitten heel in place of her usual crocs and socks uniform.
Although there is a little human psychology that goes into a truly great compliment, resist the urge to over think it. The best compliments are of the spontaneous + heartfelt variety :)
So this is just a little public service announcement: Give a compliment to at least one person today. Maybe it's your co-worker, your husband, or a complete stranger in a public restroom. You just never know...they may think back on that moment several years later and smile.
xo - Marion
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